I worry that my kids are missing out?

This is such a big subject that I’ll be answering your question over two weeks.

I started writing a blog once titled, “How much is enough time with your children?”

I never got to finish it because the kids were constantly interrupting.

The irony is not lost on me.

So it seemed fitting to dig out my partial notes to help answer a question that is on the lips of many multi-tasking parents.

There is no right or wrong answer here and it will be different for each person.

I can only say that you will know in your heart what feels like ‘enough’.

Are there ways that expenses can be cut or savings made so that you can reduce your working hours?

Will it help you to feel more balanced?

That is the key.

Striking a delicate balance between structure and spontaneity comes to mind but how can we have both? The point is we can have both and both are necessary.

It’s a matter of tuning into our intuition to know when one ends and the other begins.

Also, we need to act on that intuition without delay.

When we start doubting, questioning or over-analysing what our intuition has guided us to do, we automatically dilute the power behind it.

It might be time for you to become acquainted with the teachings of Kuan Yin as represented by today’s “Compassion” card courtesy of Doreen Virtue.

Tips to clear a path for compassion:

- Consider that you’re not giving yourself enough credit for the time you do spend with your children. Maybe it’s a case of quality not quantity.

- Acknowledge the contribution you are making.

This is not an ego boost but serves as an act of self-appreciation.

It also prevents us from looking for appreciation from others.

- Know that you are making a difference in the lives of your children, whatever you do.

Like many mothers what you are feeling is something Ita Buttrose referred to in her book Mother Guilt as, you guessed it, Motherguilt.

She writes: “Being a mother is, and always will be, a full-time job…But the strain and responsibility of caring for children plus holding down a job does not allow mothers much time for the joy of parenting.” 

Start by having more compassion for yourself and your situation.

I’m sure you will conclude that you are doing your best and that’s all anyone, including your kids, can ask for.     

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