It aches for Stephanie Scott, who was about to be married.

While I never met Stephanie, I have no doubt that as a teacher she was looking forward to one day becoming a mother.

My son will soon be five and I know, based on the kind words everyone who knew her had about the school teacher, she would have been a great mother.

The events of the past week have deeply affected all Australians.

Mothers weep because they cannot comprehend the loss of a child, fathers express anger at such a senseless act and call their daughters to remind them to be safe, husbands and wives remember to tell each other they love them and brothers and sisters pick up the phone to reach out to each other.

Students who knew Miss Scott mourn the loss of her smiling face and sense of humour while wondering how someone they may have crossed paths with could possibly be responsible for taking the life of the woman who lit up every room.

Women think twice about going for a jog alone and police search for answers to ensure justice is served.

Miss Scott’s death has touched people young and old.

If you’re feeling affected by the loss, it’s OK to ask for help and if you see someone struggling, reach out to them.

MONIQUE PATTERSON